Accountability

How many of us truly hold ourselves accountable!? I know that it's easy for us to say we hold others accountable in many cases, however, are we actually holding them accountable or are we just shifting blame from ourselves? What is accountability? In my own words, it is the act of being responsible for any outcome in our individual experience as a result of choices we make without deflection. In an effort to form some clarity in regard to how accountable anyone is truly holding themselves, I will attepmt to articulate a deeper understanding of the concept! How many times have we been in an undesirable situation? More often than not, most would shout blame in outward directions! In an instance of such, it's important to remember how we end up in any situation in the first place! It's easy to be accountable when things are going as desired, though, isn't it! Life is series of decisions we make that create our story. Every decision alters every outcome. This is why it is crucial that we only act on decisions made from within - what ultimately feels best for us! When we give away our power by accommodating others without regard to our own best interest - and then blame others for an undesirable outcome, who are we pointing our finger at? It should be ourselves! It is no one elses decision how we move forward, only our own - regardless of what we try to convince ourselves or anyone else. Every choice we make is ultimately THE CHOICE we made!! Sure, blame feels better than guilt, so most prefer to blame people and circumstances for the way things unfold when things aren't going well! However, how many times are we going to pretend to be powerless? No one is in control of anyone, no matter what the circumstances are! Some would argue, "Well, I have to do that thing. I need this job." Are you happy with that? YOU are choosing to stay there. You are not a tree. Start the search and find a job that resonates with you! Another example; "I have loved this person for a long time! Why won't they evolve and see what's in front of them?!" There are lovers that WILL, so why are we circling in the same vicious loop with the same person and blaming them when we are the one CHOOSING to remain in a space where we are undervalued!? It puts us in a state of overusing our bodies ability to create cortisol!! (Which creates trauma in our bodies tissue and can lead to illness!) We may either move forward without the person, OR try opening ourselves to fresh new perspective in an effort to hold ourselves accountable for our focus! Sometimes a shift in focus is the best thing we can do in a situation that we are choosing but also struggling in. We may find that the struggle was solely in our mindset. Mindset can be our biggest obstacle or our greatest relief! Many people will argue for their limitations. This is also a decision being made by an individual avoiding accountability. If our preference is to be stuck and suffering, then stuck and suffering we shall be! That is our choosing! We are so free that we have the freedom to settle on oppression! We learn one way or another! Why not make it easier and take control!! WE MUST hold ourselves liable for any loop we choose to partake in! As it is said, we create our reality! We are powerful creators. This is not just a mystical concept. It's proven through quantum physics! You are the observer! Observe your preferences. BE your preference!! The more we take control and practice being the version of ourselves that we prefer, the stronger connections our brains are developing to solidify our desired reality and we only have ourselves to blame/thank! Yes, there will always be outside sources/evidence of our coherence, but when everything is going as desired, it becomes easier and more fun to hold ourselves accountable while sharing gratitude for those who also take part! It's time to take control of this experience and recognize that there is absolutely NO ONE to blame for our experience aside from OURSELVES! Life isn't something that is just happens to you - it is something that YOU make happen! No one has the power over anyone else UNLESS we willingly hand over that power - which we would then need to hold ourselves accountable for doing so. The next time you find yourself in a situation that you might instinctively blame a person or circumstance, I want you to STOP! Ask yourself; How did I get here? What decision did *I* make to bring myself to this particular place in time? Was there a different decision that I could have made and why did I choose this? How did I feel when I was making the decision that lead me here? The best thing we can do is pay close attention to how we feel when making any choices! Begin to analyze your every decision. Become so aware of yourself that you begin to shift gently into the directions that yield the results you prefer! You will know by the way you feel. WE are powerful creators and WE are responsible for our own experience. Will you allow yourself to shift into liability and become an asset to your life? It's time to stop blaming others. It's time to stop being a victim of the circumstances we create and become the creator of circumstances that we enjoy! It's time to deliberately become empowered! It's time to acknowledge that we are the creators!! Be accountable for the beautiful life you deliberately create and watch how effortlessly everything flows while you finally take control and responsibility!! The unfolding of a euphoric physical experience is our birthright!! Be Accountable. Be Powerful. Be Free!